Be safe and not be abused

Be angry over past abuse

Change the situation

Have freedom from fear or abuse

Request and expect assistance from police

and social agencies

Share feelings and not be isolated from others

Want a better role model of communication

for yourself and for your children

Be respected and treated like an adult

Leave the abusive environment

Have privacy

Express her/his thoughts and feelings

Develop her/his individual talents and abilities

Legally prosecute the abuser

Make mistakes and not have to be perfect